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• I Am Who I Am 🤷🏽

• The Introverts Formula For Success👩🏽‍🔬

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I Am Who I Am 🤷🏽(The Unapologetic You)

By Jo

The #1 question always lingers: What will people say when you're gone? ☠️

Years ago, someone introduced me to this thought. The idea that one should live with an unwavering commitment to authenticity, 24/7, regardless of external opinions, which touched my soul. The notion that the scrutiny of others should not dictate our actions is kinda… liberating.

Does it really matter? It's a thought that, while promoting discipline, also ties us to the expectations of others. I plan on living authentically, regardless of other folks opinions.

Of course, there are exceptions to this rule. If you're genuinely "crazy," societal norms may not always apply.

For the rational-minded individual, being unapologetically yourself becomes an act of self-love. The burden of conforming to societal norms can hinder personal growth. Waiting for posthumous acknowledgments is futile; "I need my flowers now, not later" underscores the importance of self-celebration in the present.

Seeking approval can be a never-ending quest with no real destination.

External opinions, especially posthumously, should not guide your choices. Why? Because you will be pushing up daises by the time you run across a return-on-investment (ROI). Seek self-validation in the present rather than relying on uncertain external affirmations.

In this case… pointless affirmations.

FACT: Perceived failure might be someone else's accomplishment. In life, individual successes and setbacks are interconnected. Your failure could inspire or pave the way for someone else's triumph.

In conclusion, the journey to authentic living involves shedding the weight of others' expectations. Be true to yourself - "Your vibe attracts your tribe." By embracing the unapologetic you, you're likely to attract those who appreciate you for who you are.

The Introverts Formula for Success👩🏽‍🔬

By Marcus

I think sometimes us introverts get a bad rap. What do you think?

Introversion is one part of someone's personality, although I've seen it be used as the end-all-be-all. Why people have this one-dimensional mindset is beyond my thinking.

What's strange is some people view introversion as a weakness. I've never understood this.

Today, for you, I want to share a couple of reasons why anyone with the introvert trait is really limitless. Let's get started.

Concentration, Analytics & Problem Solving

People who are introverts are typically inclined to have the ability to lock-in and focus on the task at hand or the challenge that's in front of them. Use this to your benefit.

For example, you have to figure out what's the best way to network and communicate with clients or customers. You could concentrate and study ways to communicate and develop relationships quickly or long term.

It's simply a matter of focusing on the objective and developing a framework that works for you. To the world around you, the execution may appear seamless; however, you did the work behind the scenes to show up on game day. Game Time Ready!

Leadership

There is more than one way to lead. You can say a lot of words, and they can mean a lot of nothing. A good leader doesn't need to be the loudest in the room. Unfortunately, that's still what many believe.

A good leader needs to be a good communicator, motivator, problem solver, adaptable, resilient, and decisive. I know I left a few traits out. I'm just trying to paint a picture here 🙂

Early in my career, my work ethic got me as far as it could go. I wasn't much of a talker, of course. I was offered a promotion to a management position based on pure execution at work, showing up, and being a key contributor to the business's success. Guess what the main critique was...

"If you're going to be a manager, you need to talk more."

After using a bit of concentration, analysis, and problem-solving, I evolved into being an effective communicator who can speak to people, small teams and large groups effectively on a daily basis.

Don't let others box you in as an introvert. It's just a trait, not a designation.

Show them how powerful you really are.

More on this:

One of my favorite books on unlocking and understanding your power as an introvert is Susan Cain's book, Quiet: The Power of Introverts In a World That Can't Stop Talking. Check out her popular TED TALK with over 15 million views.

Later✌️…